If you have gotten here, then you are almost guaranteed to get laid. Once you get her number, setting up a date will be easy.
There are two options when it comes to the date; dinner or drinks. If you want to get to know her a little first, then dinner is your best choice. If you are looking to get laid ASAP, drinks are the way to go. Chances are that you are looking to close the deal as soon as possible, so we will go with dinner.
Before you figure out where to take her for the first date, you have to be sure that she is going to agree to the date in the first place.
There are a couple of things that are obvious signs that she is into you and will want to hook up with you as soon as possible. Some of these are:
- She laughs at your jokes, even the ones you are sure are not all that funny.
- She replies with long messages.
- She makes an effort to get to know you.
- She tells you how cute you are or funny or interesting.
- She has said she wants to meet you in person.
These are just some of the signs that she is interested in you and wants to meet you in person. Once you are sure that she is into you, you can then go ahead to ask her on an actual date. You can use something that you have been talking about previously to your advantage. One example is telling her that you can give her more golfing tips (if that’s a shared interest) when you meet up for drinks.
Drinks and extraction strategy
The best place to take her for drinks is a place where you have been before. A familiar environment makes you more confident and will increase your chances of getting laid. If she suggests a bar of her choosing, make sure you go there before to familiarize yourself with the surrounding. Anything you can do to make yourself more comfortable is worth doing.
Dinner is also a good idea, but you also need to think about where you are going to take her. Most women will not want to go for drinks with a total stranger. You can tell the kind of woman she is from chatting with her, and so you will know what is appropriate. When choosing a restaurant, it should be somewhere quiet and with private booths where you can sit in an intimate setting.
The same applies for meeting up for drinks. The bar should not be too loud. Preferably, it should be one with couches where you can snuggle up to each other as you take drinks. Alcohol makes women horny and more adventurous, so this should be what you are shooting for.
Get into extraction mode!
Make physical contact with her without being inappropriate. Leave her thighs and breasts for when you are actually having sex. If she doesn’t pull back when you touch her, then you are good to go.
Avoid getting hammered, it will make you sloppy and ruin your chances of getting laid. If your date is going great, you can ask her to the hotel. Ideally, this should be an hour into the date. If she is not interested in sex, she will have left long before. You can tell her something like “I can’t wait any more; you are really turning me on. How about we blow this joint?”
At this point, she is most likely interested in you. If she continuously touches you, looks at you suggestively (and maintains eye contact) she is DTF. Her body language will tell you all you need to know about how willing she is to get a hotel room with you!