Flirting is the best way to get a woman to warm up to you. If flirting is your strong point, then this is your time to shine. If it’s not, you don’t need to worry too much about it. My kindness knows no bounds, and I will take you through it in detail. Flirting is actually quite easy, a little bit of practice and you will be good to go.
Pick up lines and clichés don’t fall under the ‘flirting’ category. These will do nothing for your cause. Instead, be original, funny and laid back. You don’t have to show how desperate you are to have sex with her. Keep it light while still teasing her. She is sure to respond positively to this. Below are some ideas of how to go about it.
Don’t be offensive
Again, being a douche-bag is not going to help your cause. Also something to keep in mind is although she is looking for sex outside of the marriage, that doesn’t make her a complete whore. Learn how to talk to women and you will not have any problem getting laid especially on cheating sites.
Also, before you start teasing her, make sure you have an idea of the kind of person she is. You can do this simply by checking her profile. See what information she has on there. Her pictures should also give you an idea of what kind of person she is.
Get her attention from the get-go
We have gone through how to send the first email. Make sure that it is interesting enough to warrant a reply, and that it makes an impression from the beginning. Avoid sending copy-paste messages to women; they have a knack of finding this out quick. Instead, personalize each message to the women you are sending it to. At the end of the day, the little extra effort will definitely pay off.
Know how to make fun of yourself
This is not to be confused with putting yourself down. You can make fun of the little things about yourself. Maybe you suck at football or once flooded the house because you thought you were too macho to hire a plumber. Most guys go wrong when they think that they are God’s gift to women. The little imperfections will make you more human, and make her relate to you better.
Making fun of yourself also shows that you are confident in your own skin and that you can have fun and you are easy going. Women find such guys very attractive. An important point to note is that she should know that you are only joking. You don’t want her to think that you are not confident.
Make fun of her
This part is also very tricky. Flirting is all about poking jokes at each other. Avoid at all costs making jokes about her body. Women are sensitive about their bodies; you might think that making fun of her slightly large ears is funny, but she won’t.
You can tease her about her hobbies or something that you have seen on her profile. You can also tease her about her lack of interest or knowledge in football for example. It is always a good idea to avoid teasing her in the first email. Get to know her a little and figure out the kind of humor she has.
Take the flirting to IM as soon as possible
If the girl you have been chatting with is hot, chances are that other guys agree, and are putting in the time as well. Avoid taking too long on email; get her IM address as quickly as possible. Time is of the essence, and so you need to up your game and move as fast as possible.